Thursday, August 6, 2009

[California_Jobs] 5 Tips For Better Lovemaking

Hi,


Here are five really simple ways to make your
lovemaking more hot, steamy and passionate… (Even
starting tonight)


1. Find your partner's "hidden" zones

I call these "hidden" zones because many people
don't realize, or forget, that these areas of the
body LOVE attention.

While many of these zones are obvious, like the
lips, breasts, inner thighs and genitals, there are
also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed,
can drive your partner wild and even intensify
their orgasm.

Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms and hair
are all really sensitive areas that love to be
stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay
caressing and touching these areas, and watch how
it pleases your partner.


2. Set a romantic mood

People often think that using candles, music,
incense and even rose petals to set the mood of
your lovemaking is too "cliché." Are they kidding!
Your partner will LOVE YOU for this.

Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone
went to all the trouble to create a special
lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years
to come. Could this be so "cliché" because people
enjoy it so much? Point made.


3. Give them a sensual massage

Why stop at setting the mood? Go one step further
and give your partner a sensual massage that makes
them feel relaxed and loved at the same time. Make
it sexy, sensual, and pleasurable.

Massage them naked or build up the anticipation by
having them slowly undress during the massage. Then
kiss, caress and slowly transition "under the
sheets" where a massage of another kind can take
place.

And no, you don't need years of study to give a
great massage. Just grab some candles and music,
and bless your partner with an experience they'll
never forget.


4. Please your partner with more oral sex

Did you know that oral sex is a great way to
strengthen your relationship? Think about it. It
takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody
have their mouth down there. Not to mention it's
great for men who want to relax without pressure to
perform, and for women who can't reach orgasm from
only intercourse. In short, it's an important part
of foreplay. Here are some tips for both men and
women.

LADIES: Women often start fellatio by sucking on
the penis straight away when, actually, they should
start with some playful teasing and soft touches.
This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it
heightens his anticipation.

GENTLEMAN: A mistake men often make is moving their
tongue in a thrusting fashion, when stimulating the
vagina and clitoris orally. Instead, they should
lick it like an ice cream cone. Another great tip
to keep things exciting is to write the alphabet
around the clitoris with your tongue.


5. Constantly explore and try new things

If I could only give you one piece of advice for
better lovemaking, it would be this: become
adventurous and creative.

Nothing is stopping you from red-hot passion except
your level of creativity. Try a new position, do it
somewhere new, or spice up your foreplay with a
game.

Let's face it, the basic act of lovemaking, no
matter how hard you try, is always kiss and thrust,
but it's HOW you do it and the way you make your
partner feel that really counts.

By dedicating time to finding new things, you can
turn ordinary lovemaking into extraordinary
lovemaking. This is the sure-fire way to make sure
your lovemaking stays passionate, pleasurable, and
intimate for years to come.

Cheers,



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[California_Jobs] Last longer in bed

Hi,

How many times have you had an extended love making session with your partner? It does happen once in a while and you should make it memorable.

A sex medley could last thw whole night. Its important to keep the momemtum and interest in both the partners.

Although these things cannot be predicted as to when they will happen, if you do need to plan a long session, its important that you are energetic and have had lots of liquids (not alcohol).

Some practical tips to last longer in your love making thorugh the night.

Do not ejaculate
Just make up your mind not to - it actually works. Also choose positions that provide less friction. Slow down if you feel  like you're losing  thrust power and erection. Do not bring it to the brink.  

Keep on stimulating her.
Women need constant stimulation. This can include caressing, kissing, fondling her breasts, massaging. A break can be just  cozying up and talking. Experiment new positions.

Keep your alcohol intake low
More than two drinks make a man drowsy and lowers his ability to achieve and maintain erections. Ejaculations can also get delayed for as long time. You do not want to snooze off during the session.

Experiment with toys
You can try out sex toys like vibrators. Try out ice cream, chocolate sauce or whipped cream.

Keep a lubricant at hand
You could experience dryness during your session, so keep some good quality lubricant handy, one that tastes nice and is non-greasy. Drinking water to rehydrate is a very good idea.




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Wednesday, August 5, 2009

[California_Jobs] Rekindle The Magic In Your Relationship

Hi,


Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn't
have the magic and romance that it once had?

You're not alone.

Living with the same partner for a long time can
become stable and comfortable, and, as a result,
can also kill the spark that made your relationship
so special in the first place.

Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to
reignite that magic:

1. SEND THEM A UNIQUE GIFT

Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a
bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two
stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your
two names pointing to the stick figures. Write 'I
Love You' inside a heart. Next get a large formal
envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a
formal address label of your partner's workplace,
such as:  "For the immediate and urgent attention
of:  Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith
Solicitors, New York." Mail it to your partner so
they receive it in the middle of a busy day.

2. BECOME KIDS AGAIN

If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and
give your partner a ride. This will often bring
back happy memories from their childhood.

3. FUN WITH WATER

On a hot summer's day, buy two large water pistols
and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out
and throw one to your partner and then have a huge
water fight.

4. A MASSAGE WITH A TWIST

Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of
colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank
card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the
massage oil in the box and write the following
message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an
appointment call: (Your Phone Number)

5. SPICE UP YOUR LOVEMAKING

Probably the most profound way to rekindle the
romance in your relationship is to spice up your
lovemaking. Surprise your partner with a little
gift after you make love, try a new position, learn
to give your partner a sensual massage before or
after, or just spend some time staring into each
other's eyes and caressing their bare skin before
making love.

Many people underestimate the affect passionate and
intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you
spice it up, chances are you and your partner will
naturally do romantic things for each other. Why?
Because passionate lovemaking connects two people
in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing
else can.

Cheers,


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[California_Jobs] 500 Lovemaking Tips ­ Book Review

Hi,

One of the biggest challenges couples in long-term relationships face is trying to keep their lovemaking red, hot and steamy. Early on in a relationship, the passion and newness of your lovemaking is always unforgettable; but, as that initial magic fades, it becomes harder to make things exciting again. 

So is "500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets" by acclaimed author Michael Webb the right book to bring back the fire? Here's my take on it.

The book begins with a general foundation and understanding on lovemaking, briefly discussing topics like bedroom toys, adult films, the importance of romance for lovemaking, and interesting truths about Kama Sutra. It also contains a lubrication guide and 16 fully illustrated lovemaking positions in the back of the book. These are all nice touches, but the main attraction and bulk of the book is the 500+ tips.

I have to say, I really LOVE that you can open the book, pick a page and have between 8 ­ 10 easy-to-read tips ready to inspire or use right away. No need to read through dozens of long-winded paragraphs. Everything is formatted neatly and is very easy on the eyes. This is a big plus when you're just about to make love spur-of-the-moment and you want some ideas.

So, what about the actual tips themselves?

This book is a treasure chest of ideas. It has 539 tips in total. They range from oral sex tips for both men and women, to games you can play to make foreplay more fun (although I would have loved to see more games). It also has tips to make intercourse feel better and unique, ways to surprise your partner like "coming out of the shower with just a towel and playing with your wife," and even some cool places to make love that most people would never have thought of. While I didn't find all the tips exciting (which was expected), I found more than enough that appealed to me.

The tips are all mixed together, which can get a little overwhelming. I recommend you skim through the book a few times rather than trying to read the whole thing in one sitting.

This book also lives up to its promise of not containing any raunchy, degrading, immoral or perverted ideas that so many lovemaking books seem to have. 

In conclusion, while not all the tips in the book amazed me and I would have been nice to see some more 'games', it's still THE most complete book of tips and ideas on improving lovemaking I've ever read. Nothing else comes close. All in all, I found it very enjoyable to read and use :) So if you want to make your lovemaking exciting again or even if you just want some tips for more pleasure, then I highly recommend this book for you.
 
For more information about 500 Lovemaking Tips to go: 

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